Adventures Overseas

Hi I'm Leah! I'll be studying abroad in the Netherlands from January 30th to May 13th. I'm a 20-year-old from New England with a major in English and a minor in gender studies. My study abroad program focuses on international perspectives on gender and sexuality.

duckieduck asked: Hey Leah! I went to Amsterdam in December and also found a little market kiosk that sold pocket watch necklaces. But for some reason, I decided not to buy one and have regretted it ever since. My friend is heading over there for a week on wednesday and I was wondering if you rememebered which Market you got it from? Thanks and happy study abroading! (I'm on exchange too! In Marseille for the year)

I got mine at the Waterlooplein market, but I’m pretty sure I’ve also seen them at Dappermarkt.

February 4th-10th recap

On Saturday, we went to the NEMO science museum and saw their exhibit on teen sexuality. Very interesting, and very open! They talked about the emotional and physical stuff, along with “taboo” things like masturbation and homosexuality. Can’t imagine something like that in the US!

Then some of us ate at a nice Argentinian restaurant before heading back to SIT to meet our hosts. My host, as I mentioned, is Anne. She is 60 years old and she works in the office at the fire station. Her house is really nice, and I have a great room. I love the cat, Pinkie, who has definitely warmed up to me. Here are some pictures of my room before I unpacked.

Anne and I talk at dinner, and sometimes I help her cook. Many evenings, we watch the news in Dutch and drink tea together. She usually works until 6:30 or later, so I don’t see her for very long, but she’s nice and makes for good company. She’s a bit quieter than I’m used to, so I have to try to be friendlier and not be afraid to ask questions. But all in all, it’s a good situation. On Sunday, I just spent the day unpacking and enjoying the free time (and internet). Then Monday started classes!

On Monday, I had Dutch class, which I looove. Learning a new language is so much fun, and I really understand the rules (because of my obsession with grammar) so it’s easy for me to pick up. Our teacher, Eduard, is so nice and funny and he puts up with our nonsense. We also sometimes get sidetracked and start talking about other topics relevant to our program, which might make the usual adult a bit uncomfortable, but Eduard takes it in stride. He’s coming with us to Morocco for a few days, and I’m really glad. After Dutch class, we went to an outdoor flea market to get bikes. I’ve hardly used mine because of the snow and the cold, but I’m excited to ride around when it’s nicer. There were so many lovely things for sale at the market. I bought some super thick winter leggings with a pretty pattern on them and a little pocket watch necklace. It was great to see all the kinds of things they had for sale, and I’d definitely like to go back.

It was also a really beautiful day, despite the cold, and there were so many birds out on the canals.

On Tuesday, we had a speaker on Dutch politics versus American politics, and then we had our first theory seminar. My previous critical theory class prepared me a bit for this seminar, but it was still pretty overwhelming for the first day. We were at SIT from 10 am to 5 pm, so it was a pretty long day (although quite typical). We had a two-hour lunch break though, so a bunch of us went and got falafels. I’d never had one before, but damn it was good! On Wednesday we had a speaker on “The Decline of Sexual Radicalization in the Netherlands” discussing how gay rights groups have become less like the kind of gay pride people you see in parades in P-Town and more interested in being seen as “normal” people. It’s quite interesting. Then a women discussed feminism in the Netherlands, but unfortunately her accent was hard to understand and she spoke very softly :(. Thursday was another Dutch day! By that time, we had been practicing numbers and letters. Dutch went from 10am to 12:30pm, and then we went back to SIT to discuss the speakers from the previous days. After that, I went home and explored my neighborhood to prepare for a presentation on it in class the next day. I found a grocery store, a library, and lots of narrow streets.

On Friday, we went to the Amsterdam Historic Museum where our tour guide showed us a lot of paintings and artifacts and explained a lot of the city’s history. She skipped over a lot of the museum because we didn’t have a lot of time, so it would be nice to go there. We didn’t go to a lot of the more modern parts of the museum, so maybe I’ll go back by myself or with a friend sometime. Back at SIT, we did our neighborhood presentations, and it was interesting to see all the different types of areas where people were living in the city. We then had our first oral history workshop, which was mostly just an introduction by our teacher, Yvette who explained why oral history is important and could help us in our independent study projects. We got out at 6pm that day, so I had told Anne I could fend for myself for dinner so she could go out with a friend. I walked from SIT to Museumplein which is a square surrounded by many museums. On the way, I saw all these skaters on the ice on Keizersgracht. It was like a huge party, and they were playing disco music and wearing glowing necklaces.

Needless to say, the Dutch are obsessed with the ice. I then continued to walk to Museumplein but got a little bit lost and ended up in Leidseplein, which was BUMPIN’ on a Friday night. It’s the big nighttime place with lots of bars and restaurants, and it’s where the more touristy things are like the Hard Rock Cafe. So, I poked my head around there for a bit, but then followed the signs to orient myself. I finally found the Museumplein, and it was much bigger than I expected. The area surrounded by the museums has a playground, a big gift shop (heaven!), a skating rink, and some sports fields. Oh and this sign:

Most things were closed because it was around 8pm, and typical closing time is 5 or 6. But it was still nice to walk around. It was very comfortable, and I felt totally safe even though it was dark and I was alone. One woman even came up to me asking for directions to the Van Gogh Museum! I looked like a local! I answered her with a smile and proclaimed, “Just across the square!” Aha it was very exciting. I had been looking for a place to eat, but nothing really spoke to me. I ended up stopping at a small place by centraal station to get…….a falafel! They’re everywhere here, I swear! It was delicious. Then I went home, satisfied with my first solo adventure in the city.

Update :)

Sorry it’s been so long! Wednesday night, the last time I updated, was really great. A bunch of us hung out at the bar in the hostel with our academic director. There were so many people there because a band was playing. It was nice to see and interact with so many locals. I didn’t feel out of place or anything. Bakkum was a nice place because there weren’t so many tourists so it felt like genuine Holland. We traveled to another hostel in Amsterdam the next morning. We stopped in an old village called Zaanse Schans where there were some beautiful windmills.

The Wooden Shoe Museum was also in that village, and we saw a demonstration on how the clogs are made today. There was also a cheese shop, which was deeeelicious. Unlimited free samples! We got to go inside one of the mills which was a recreation of an older one that was destroyed. It was amazing seeing it sawing wood with only wind power. It was terribly cold and windy here, but luckily it was beautiful and sunny.

Then we went to our hostel which was really fancy and was more like a nice hotel. We also got to see our new school, which is a great space that includes a kitchen, a nice classroom, a library, and a couple other rooms. We had a speaker that night who discussed “porna” which is female-centered pornography, sex ed in the Netherlands, and being queer in Amsterdam. She was young and funny, and the talk was very interesting. That night, six of us went out to explore and found some bars (where I got a pear cider, Dad!!) in a popular square, Rembrantplein. Some people in the group mentioned wanting to go to a coffee shop they’d heard of, so we headed there next. I didn’t want to smoke, but luckily they weren’t the kind of people to be judgmental or pushy, and another guy didn’t want to either. So it was fun! I got a tea because the smoke was bothering me (which is weird, because that never happens to me!), and we all chatted while the four of them smoked. The place inside had all these crazy decorations and lighting, and it looked really cool. Everyone seemed really chill (obviously) so I didn’t feel uncomfortable. Then we went to a club called Paradiso where this guy Bonobo was DJing. Everyone danced individually at the club, which I imagine would be completely different in the US. There was no grinding or anything. It was like everyone was having fun themselves. Very cool. 

Unfortunately, we got horribly lost getting back to the hostel after the concert. It was freezing cold and my feet were killing me, but we got there in the end. The next morning, after getting little sleep and walking forever, I woke up to hear we were going on a walking tour of the city. Oh joy. It was also below freezing outside, so that was great. I hardly looked up while we walked around because of the cold, and Kevin, our academic director, hardly pointed out anything on the way. It wasn’t a great tour, to say the least. And then it started snowing. That was just adding insult to injury, but then once we were inside the SIT office, we could admire how pretty it really made the city look.

Then we had to trek over to the University of Amsterdam to hear a talk about homosexuality in the Netherlands, and then we were off on our own. I went to this concert with Alex, a guy in the program, because he got free tickets and everyone else was too exhausted to go. It was all this weird traditional Dutch music. And everyone at the concert knew all the lyrics to all the songs… very odd. It was a bunch of singers, mostly middle-aged dudes singing with recorded background music. Well, it was an experience!

Here’s a picture from yesterday of our whole group and our academic director (next to me). We biked to the beach, which was really great even though it was cold out. I was glad to see that I could handle it as well as the others. I did get tired on the way back, but it was nice to collapse after all that work. At the beach, there was a beautiful restaurant with a big view and some nice fireplaces inside. We got some warm drinks and relaxed and talked before we turned back.

Here’s a picture from yesterday of our whole group and our academic director (next to me). We biked to the beach, which was really great even though it was cold out. I was glad to see that I could handle it as well as the others. I did get tired on the way back, but it was nice to collapse after all that work. At the beach, there was a beautiful restaurant with a big view and some nice fireplaces inside. We got some warm drinks and relaxed and talked before we turned back.

I just found out about my host mom! Her name is Anne and she lives in north Amsterdam with her deaf cat Pinkie! I am so excited to be living with a cat :). Her 28-year-old daughter lives in South Africa. Anne studied theater and history of art, and she also enjoys languages, so it’s perfect! She said in her letter that she’d love to learn a lot from me because of my “fascination for the English grammar.” I’m really excited!! She lives farther from the SIT office than most of the other students, but they’ll provide me with a bus pass, so I should be fine. They say it’d take about 30-40 minutes to bike there, and I do plan on doing that when it’s nice out. I even have to take a ferry! We meet all our host families on Saturday at some nice mixer party dinner…thing. Then we’ll start living with them on Sunday. I can’t wait!

So, I only know of one Dutch musical artist, Caro Emerald. She is so great and jazzy. I’ve listened to her album a bunch over winter break… Imagine my surprise when I heard this song playing in the airport! I felt so cool and knowledgeable since I recognized the song :’)

Alas, it is the end of the longest day ever. I’ve been awake for about 25 hours, and now I can finally sleep. It’s not even 8 pm here, but I’m ready to hit the hay. Everyone in my group is great and I can already tell that I’ll be good friends with a lot of them. We’re all just so excited to get to know each other, especially since we all have similar interests. Today, we drove from the airport to our hostel on the western coast of the country. We’re going to take a bike ride together along a path through the dunes tomorrow. We had a brief meeting when we got here and then walked in the woods behind our hostel. There were oxen!!!!! Just like standing around!!!! They were so big and pretty colored and aw. It was definitely a surprise. Then we had dinner at the hostel, and it was super delicious. It was my first Dutch food, and there wasn’t anything scary at all :).  We had tasty meatballs and an amazing soup and some really strange mousse that no one could figure out the flavor of. It was some kind of mix between rum and eggnog flavor. Definitely surprising. The ten girls are all staying in one room, and the two poor boys are in a room all by themselves. Ten excited girls make for some fun gossip and conversation, but I’m too tired to participate much. We can save our cute bonding time for another night!

I’m at the airport in Amsterdam!! It’s 9:18am local time but 3:18am in my brain sooooo I’m a bit exhausted but mostly just running on EXCITEMENT. I met up with two girls from my program, so now we’re all bonding by staring at our own computer screens :’). I only have free wifi for two half hour sessions and this is my first one and I don’t know how much time I have left, so I won’t say much now. We’re meeting with the rest of the group at 2pm local time so we have a looooong time to wait still. But it’s okay! Oof, one bad thing is that my ears popped on the plane so now I can barely even hear myself, much less other people. I took some nasal decongestant so hopefully that’ll work?? But yeah, I don’t really want to spend my time abroad being deaf! My eyes keep blurring together, so I should probably take out my contacts haha whoops. I can’t tell if I’m hungry either, because they served both dinner and breakfast within like a four hour span, so now I’m just CONFUSED. I sound a bit loopy, don’t I? I’m okay, I promise! I just hope today won’t be too busy since most of us will be running on little to no sleep. It’s just super fun that I’m finally here after all this time! I’ll hopefully be able to update tonight some more, so check back! Yay!

I’m at the airport in Amsterdam!! It’s 9:18am local time but 3:18am in my brain sooooo I’m a bit exhausted but mostly just running on EXCITEMENT. I met up with two girls from my program, so now we’re all bonding by staring at our own computer screens :’). I only have free wifi for two half hour sessions and this is my first one and I don’t know how much time I have left, so I won’t say much now. We’re meeting with the rest of the group at 2pm local time so we have a looooong time to wait still. But it’s okay! Oof, one bad thing is that my ears popped on the plane so now I can barely even hear myself, much less other people. I took some nasal decongestant so hopefully that’ll work?? But yeah, I don’t really want to spend my time abroad being deaf! My eyes keep blurring together, so I should probably take out my contacts haha whoops. I can’t tell if I’m hungry either, because they served both dinner and breakfast within like a four hour span, so now I’m just CONFUSED. I sound a bit loopy, don’t I? I’m okay, I promise! I just hope today won’t be too busy since most of us will be running on little to no sleep. It’s just super fun that I’m finally here after all this time! I’ll hopefully be able to update tonight some more, so check back! Yay!

So I have been packing for a while now and AHH it’s just so weird knowing that I won’t see my room and most of my things for months. If I choose not to bring something, then it’s like I’ve accepted that I won’t use it for all that time. I can’t just get it next month when I go home for break. Nope, no breaks. This is the long term, baby. It’s hard deciding what I’ll need so far in advance. I have a hard time thinking about warmer weather and spring when it’s been cold out for weeks. Shorts? Tanktops? Oh right, I’ll probably be wearing those. I’m trying to be more realistic about what I should bring, so packing hasn’t been that bad. Now to try and fit everything in the suitcase…!